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November 16, 2008

As predicted....

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We did not meet or even talk to one single guy last night, save the very nice host who got us a table at the Bowery Hotel Bar.  What's up with men in New York? I've got to say, when we lived in London, we couldn't walk into a pub, club or bar without being approached by some guys - and many of them were nice!  I really don't think we are completely repulsive, so I don't think it's because of that. And we were not standing around in a circle all cut off from people, either. Maybe if we had been walking around with bad highlights and our breasts or knickers hanging out (like some others...), we'd have had better luck. Maybe next time, I'll just leave my skirt at home.

But, that factor aside, it was a really fun night, and I was quite proud that I left my old lady habits of the last year behind (going to bed by 10pm) for the evening.  We didn't even leave my place to go out until about 10pm for our ambitious night out!  We went to Lure first, where we sat at the bar and drank Bellini martinis (yum!).  The dining area was packed, but the lounge was surprisingly sparse (the economy?).

After that, we nabbed a cab (in the rain, no less) and headed to Bubble Lounge, which I must say, was my least favorite spot of the night.  My kir royale was fine, but it was wall-to-wall with people (including the aforementioned scantily-clad types).  There were some guys there, but they all stood in a tight circle like they were part of a football huddle, so clearly, they weren't very approachable. Last but not least, we headed to the Bowery Hotel Bar, where I snapped the above photo.  This was probably my favorite spot of the night, no doubt because after getting our Pimm's cups and wine, the nice host found us at the bar and led us to a table in the main room, which looks like an English hunting lodge.  There, we ensconced ourselves in the velvety couches and upholstered high back chairs and wound down. We even saw some celebs, though none of us could remember what we'd seen them in or who they were. Oh well.

At about 2am, we called the first official Ladies night to a close and headed home. Shockingly, I wasn't dead tired, so I ended up watching an episode of The Office on my computer to see my other virtual celebrity boyfriend (I don't believe you have to be faithful when the relationships are figments of your overly bored imagination), John Krasinsky. Lovely.

Isn't being single in New York City so glamorous!

This morning, I got up, listened to my favorite NPR program, made breakfast and swallowed 4 of the 8 pills I'll take today (blah). Then I took a long walk all through Central Park. My left hip and knee were a little grumpy, but it felt good to be out in the fresh air, enjoying the changing leaves and getting some exercise, not to mention perspective.  All in all, a pretty great day.

Here are a few photos so you can see for yourself. This is the time of year I love New York the most!

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November 15, 2008

Ladies night

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About six months ago, two of my gal pals and I decided we should implement a monthly 'Ladies night' to help us better live out our New York City lives. Pathetically (and rather unfabulously, I must add) it's taken us this long to get our acts together and plan one. In the meantime, of course, Wall St. and the global economy have imploded, but no matter - out we are going, wallets be damned!

What will the night entail?  We're not entirely sure, but festivities will commence at my place with plenty of champagne to get things rolling. We'll be dining on some Les Trois Petits Cochons' Mousse Truffee with cornichon, mustard, some green grapes and a small cheese plate to nosh on (complete with the BEST mozzarella I have ever had from a deli in Hoboken that my friend has been charged with bringing - or else). My diet can take a hike tonight.

After that, these are the possibilities: Lure Fish Bar, Flute, The Bubble Lounge and the Bowery Hotel Bar. (Note: if you think having RA has checked my ability to be decadent, see this post.)

And, since I am back into skinny jeans land, should I meet some half-way interesting (and straight, and single, and hopefully gainfully employed) members of the opposite sex, well, maybe that would not be so bad. Of course, with my luck, now that I've decided to ease up on my dating strike, all the decent blokes will have naturally found themselves enraptured in relationships with other women, or will have decided to stay home and save their pennies.

Either way, time to get ready and don my new pair of Marc Jacobs pumps (aquired during my sister's wedding week in San Francisco)! Let the first Ladies Night begin!

November 13, 2008

Salt in the wound.

Question:  What's worse than having a chronic disease at the age of 30 that requires you to shoot yourself up with needles twice a week in order to not be in pain and sustain major joint damage?

Answer: Having a chronic disease at the age of 30 that requires you to shoot yourself up with needles twice a week in order to not be in pain and sustain major joint damage AND having to argue with the pharmacist AGAIN about the fact that yes, your monthly prescription does, in fact, call for TWO boxes of syringes, not ONE, AND in the process of having this argument, declaring aloud that you stick needles into yourself twice a week every week in front of all the other people who happen to be standing in line every damn time you go to get your medicine refilled at the same damn pharmacy.

SERIOUSLY, people. Just give me my f****** drugs.

November 10, 2008

Comic Strip # 6: By the way, don't forget to pack your RA

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In my latest Single in the City....with Rheumatoid Arthritis comic strip, I muse (OK, whine) about the head aches of traveling with RA. Check it out and feel free to leave comments.

November 09, 2008

Le Tango RA, or, The trip of a lifetime: part 5

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Ok, this post is a long time coming. What can I say, life intrudes.... No doubt you may need a refresher, so here are the links to parts 1, 2, 3 and 4.

We arrived in Buenos Aires midday and, oddly, a few hours before we had expected to after being thrown onto an earlier flight upon arrival to the airport in Iguazu Falls (when does that ever happen?). This meant we had time to kill before the landlord of the flat we were renting could meet us.  We also had about two tons of luggage each, and carrying mine around for hours was simply not an option for me. Though I'd been doing well, the mighty backpack(s) I had were so heavy they made me break out into a sweat when I put them on.  Luckily, Em and Katie weren't keen on the idea of carrying theirs around either, so we had a taxi drop us off at Plaza Dorrego in San Telmo.  There, we found a cozy table and generous wait staff who weren't bothered by our entourage of bags at the Cafe Dorrego, one of Buenos Aires oldest cafes (there are many, though!).

My stomach was not feeling quite so fine, to be honest, so I satisfied myself with some yerba mate tea while Katie and Em ordered hamburger completas (hamburgers with cheese, fried egg and ham. Hells yeah.) We spent a couple of hours dining there and then headed out to check into our fabulous flat that would be home for the next six days:

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The flat came complete with a crazy landlord, but she was sweet, and we were thrilled to be able to stay in one place for six entire days.  Just as we got settled, Katie very sadly and unwillingly had to depart to head back to the airport and fly home.  (Due to limited vacation days, she was only able to come for the middle portion of the trip.)  We said a bummed out good-bye, hugged, and off she went.

And then there were two.

We were completely knackered, so we tooled around the apartment quietly, ran a load of laundry, got some groceries and then had a mediocre dinner at a nearby restaurant. It was rather nice to feel like we didn't have to run out and do everything.

The next day, we decided to walk around the city and visit the palace where Eva Peron gave her famous speech, among other sights.  It was then that we began to realize exactly how large a city Buenos Aires is.  It makes Manhattan feel tiny in comparison.  Our walk from San Telmo to the Palace took a good 30 minutes, and then we made our way up Avenida Florida amongst throngs of shoppers, pedestrians and tango dancers. We stopped and had lunch, then spent the rest of the afternoon....walking. And walking and walking and walking. Finally, it was late, getting dark and we had been on our feet for almost six hours. Yeah. We got onto the metro at Plaza San Martin and headed back to San Telmo for dinner (steak!) at a different cafe on Plaza Dorrego. My stomach was feeling fine again, but I could tell that the two weeks with no enbrel shots was beginning to catch up with me. Somehow, Machu Picchu and the Amazon had been no problem, but walking around on pavement for six hours in a city had done in my feet, ankles, knees and hips. Oy.  I took some naproxen that night to help out and hoped sleep would do the rest.

Day number three was spent doing more.....walking and shopping.  This time in a neighborhood called Palermo Soho.  We metro-d out there and then began browsing in all the fancy boutiques.  Around lunchtime, we met up with a friend of mine, Lucas, to see a rehearsal of his latest dance work, followed by coffee at a cafe attached to a theater.  We told Lucas we had our hearts set on seeing some real tango, so he agreed to take us out to a place he knew of that Friday night.  And then he introduced us to the real love of my life (screw Joshua Radin):  alfajores.  HOLY SHIT these are goooooood.  For those of you who have never experienced bliss in the form of Dulce de leche between two layers of shortbread covered in chocolate, I recommend you get thee to an Argentinean pastry shop pronto. Or to Buenos Aires where you can buy them on the street.

Then, we went on a mission to find tango shoes.  To hell with the fact that my feet were misbehaving, I wasn't going to show up at any tango hall with flats on! Sadly, I struck out that day, but Emily found a pair of red stilettos. We celebrated her find by going out to a fabulous restaurant Lucas had told us about called La Zamma.  It was filled with locals, and the manager of the restaurant came over to help us with the menu.  This is what we dined on:

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Followed by dessert:

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Followed by these, compliments of the manager:

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Day number 4 found us heading to Recoleta, one of the more posh parts of the city, to visit the famed Recoleta cemetery, which is home to many famous Argentineans, most notably the Perons. On our way there, we stopped into one of the heavenly pastry shops on the street to get savory rolls filled with cheese and ham for breakfast.

Now, to call the Recoleta Cemetery merely a cemetery somehow seems inadequate because it is much more like a genuine city of the dead, filled with mausoleum mansions, monuments, alley ways and passages.

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We roamed about the never ending mausoleums, then headed for a cafe con leche at a nearby cafe. After that, it was back on the shoe hunting mission.  Luckily, my shopping mojo was in better form, and I found these fairly quickly:

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I confess, my feet were not feeling so hot when I bought these, and I was feeling a little nervous about my ability to wear them and not be miserable, but I decided I didn't care and pulled out the pesos.

Next up, since you know, it had been a total of two hours (maybe) since we'd eaten, we grabbed a taxi and went to Cafe Tortoni, Buenos Aires' most famous and oldest cafe.  There, I finally had my own hamburger completa, as well as one of their specialty coffees. Luckily, the upside of the service there being so, well, nonexistent, is that they don't seem to mind if you stay as long as you like and soak up the atmosphere and history.

That evening, determined to have as complete an experience as possible in the city, Emily and I headed off to a football game (aka soccer, in the US).  For anyone who doesn't know, Argentina is football crazy, in a very serious and intense way.  There are rituals, there are brawls, there are die hard fans.  We organized this with a tour group (one of the few things we did not do on our own), so we were picked up in a van at our apartment and driven way out (though still in Buenos Aires) to see the Argentina Juniors against San Lorenzo.  Unlike games in the US, there is no alcohol served at all, though they do still sell hot dogs, hamburgers and coke.  The fans of the two teams are kept as separate as possible to avoid fights, and the real fans organize themselves in one area of the stadium according to a complex hierarchy-they basically operate like a mafia, and they take the game very seriously. From the moment the players ran onto the field, they began singing and they sang the whole game, nearly nonstop.  They also spread out huge banners over top of their entire section. The experience was unreal.

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Sadly for the Argentina Juniors and their fans, the game was a major upset and they lost. We had a great time, though, despite the cold weather.

On day 5 (wait, how did it get to be day 5 already?), we took a day trip to Colonia de Sacramento in Uruguay.  We took a fast boat (marking our 10th boat ride of the trip) that morning, after breakfasting on some alfajores, naturally. There, we  spent the day walking around this rather sleepy, quiet little town.  It was a nice change of pace.

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On the fast boat back to Buenos Aires that evening, we had only been able to get a ticket in the 'Especial' class, which meant we got to sit upstairs in the swanky section and have a glass of champagne. That was not a problem for us. In fact, if push came to shove, I think I could adjust well to being part of the Especial class when I travel.  The boats themselves reminded me of Las Vegas - everything was red, glossy and for sale.

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We got back to our dear apartment, and then it was time to get ready to tango.  Now, we knew the place we were going to was low key, but since it was our only night out at a milonga (tango hall) and the very last night of our trip, we couldn't help but get dolled up.  So we put on our dresses and fancy shoes, and got ready to head out.  

I will confess that my feet hurt a lot at this point, and I considered taking a prednisone, but since I really wanted to avoid having to take that if I could, and because I knew I would be watching more than dancing myself, I swallowed some aleve instead and marched out the door.

We met Lucas at a place in Palermo called Club Villa Malcolm. From the outside, you would never have known it was there. The front is a small, unassuming, no frills restaurant. In back of the restaurant, though, the place opens up into a fantastic old gymnasium-like space with towering ceilings, a small stage in the back and a huge chandelier providing the only light for the dancers below.  The dance floor was surrounded by small cafe tables, and there was a side room separated by a few columns filled with more tables and chairs and dimly lit by another chandelier.  It felt positively magical.  We took a seat and began to watch the couples.  It was mesmerizing-the music alone was positively thrilling, but to see all these people gathered on a Friday night-old, young, fat, thin, tall, short, you name it. Men were dancing with men, women with women, old with the young-it didn't matter; people had come to Tango. There was such a feeling of old world romance alive that all of us were transfixed. Emily and I were, in turn, asked to dance, but given that we knew absolutely no tango, and it isn't the kind of dance you can just pick up on the spot, we didn't get very far. It was fun to get up and at least try, and our partners were, shall we say, tolerant. I really could have stayed there all night long watching, but before we knew it, it was 1AM and time to depart.  Sadly, my camera wasn't able to catch all that much due to the dim lighting, but here is a shot that will give you a little sense of what it was like:

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The next day, our last day, we got breakfast at, you guessed it, another old cafe (god, how I wish New York had half the cafe culture of Buenos Aires. Where did we go wrong?), where we were abuzz to read in the paper that Obama had selected Biden as his running mate.  We were also in disbelief that we would be getting on planes and flying home because our trip was ending that night.  Say what? 

We spent our last day seeing La Boca, a colorful neighborhood with a street fair environment, and wandering around San Telmo's markets.  We took a nice long nap in one of the parks, enjoying the sun and reflecting on the last three weeks. Oh yes, and we bought massive boxes of alfajores to take home with us AND had one more meal in an old cafe.

And then, as it always does, time passed too quickly, and we were at the airport and it was over.

It's funny how, no matter the length of the trip, the last part of it always seems to rush by the fastest. Although we were in Buenos Aires longer than any other place the whole trip, I somehow felt like we'd barely been there, and that there was so much more to see and do!

On the other hand, thinking back to the start of the trip and my first hikes from hell in Cuzco and Machu Picchu, it seemed impossible we'd only been gone for three weeks.

I felt very sad and unready to leave, I confess, but also incredible for having gotten through the whole thing really remarkably well. True, the traveling had been a little rough, and by the time I got to Argentina, my body was sorely missing the enbrel. BUT, at no point was I not able to do something that I wanted to do because of the RA. At no point did I have to turn back, or stay home and miss out.  What's more, I pushed myself harder at certain points of the trip and did things I certainly don't normally do in my everyday life with or without RA. I felt like I had really accomplished a lot.

I learned that I can go a little while without my meds and not be crippled. I also learned that after three weeks off the shots, I was very happy and grateful to get back on them.  I proved that I can still do the type of travel that I enjoy most and not be limited by the fact that I have this disease, even if it means it may be a little harder on me than before and take a different kind of planning. I also learned that I LOVE Buenos Aires and really really want to get back there. And I really want to learn to tango. I intend to, though, predictably and annoyingly, my New York life keeps intruding and making that difficult.  Sigh.

In the end, this trip really was the trip of a lifetime for me (though I hope for some kick ass sequels) and a real battle of wills against me and RA.  And you know what, I WON!

Final scorecount for Me vs. RA on the trip of a lifetime: 17 and 0. Read it and weep.

November 05, 2008

I left my health in San Francisco

Well, ok, not completely, but a week of jetting crosscountry, swigging champagne and royally wrecking my diet (worth every f****** calorie for that peanutbutter hot chocolate alone) left me with three days of migraines and a few (or five) pounds heavier, not to mention feeling like my body is made of molten lead slowly hardening. 

But give me a break, it was my sister's wedding, after all, and it was positively glorious!!!! It was just a wonderful, happy, beautiful week with smashing good parties, dinners and a heart-warming wedding ceremony and swanky reception that made me cry and smile all at once. It's the happiest I've been in a very long time (unless you count last night!) and I'm so happy that I could be there.

And if you thought my shoes were going to be fabulous, check these out:

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What can I say? The shoe thing definitely runs in my family (my sister fashionably opted out of the bridal-white tradition).

Now that the wonderful week is over and I'm back at home, I am slowly coming to terms with the rotten fact that I can't do all the things I used to do and get away with it. I don't think this is because I turned 30. I'm pretty sure it's the result of my twerpy immune system. I partied hard and had fun and tried not to miss a single moment, but it caught up with me in the end. Sigh. RA can really be such a bastard.

On a good note, the Frio wallet rocked my world. It was supereasy, convenient and worked with no problems, so I absolutely plan to use it from now on instead of the bulky travel pack. Thanks again to Susan at Arthritis Friend for tipping me onto it!

More proper posts to come as soon as I recover a little more from the festivities and get caught up at work. (Gulp).

Photo by DFN.

October 28, 2008

Wedding bells will ring!

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Not for me, silly, but I'm off today to San Francisco (pending good weather and good airline luck!) for my sister's wedding.  And, I'm wearing some kick ass heels even if it kills me.

Hooray!

October 26, 2008

Shout out for 'Here Comes the Weather'

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Lest you think I am the only blogger/writer in my family, let me set the record straight.  My sister is the real writer in the family, following in the steps of my grandmother before her.  Luckily, she writes about food, and not as the result of some terrible, unfortunate health circumstance.

Her fiancé, however, started his blog after suffering a traumatic brain injury about three years ago that has left him with near permanent vertigo and killer migraines, among other super-fun things (and we thought having a wacked out immune system sucked!).

But, like me, he decided to try and make something good come out of this horrible thing, and in the midst of dealing with his injury, picked his guitar back up and began writing a song.  That song turned into an idea to put together an album as he rediscovered one of his original loves: music.

I'm proud to report that he has posted his first finished, fully recorded song, Here Comes the Weather, online (including on itunes), and it's great.  Seriously, or I wouldn't be writing about it publicly.  But enough from me.  If you want to check out more about his story and hear the song, head over to his blog, Cerebellum Blues.

October 25, 2008

Skinny jeans and all!


Ladies and gentlemen, I have entered the safety zone. 

My totally boring, new healthy-eating regimen actually seems to be working, and for the first time in over a year, I was able to put on my skinny jeans (and not be horrified) today!!!! Hooray!!!!  I even wore them out in public!

Now, I still have a bit to go before I lose all of my RA Freshman 15, but I have lost nine pounds of it so far over the last two months through diet and exercise, and that's nothing to sneeze at.  I guess my metabolism didn't completely kick it after all. (Metabolism, I take back all the hateful things I said about you this past year.)

Given that it's difficult for me to be as active as I was back in the day when I practiced two-hour sessions of yoga a few times a week, I may never lose 100% of what I gained during Ye Olde Winter of Slothdom and Suffering, but you know what, that is OK.  It feels really good to FINALLY feel more fit and able and get back into skinny jeans land. Plus, I won't feel so bad at my sister's wedding festivities next week, where I plan to indulge a wee bit in all the yummy, not-part-of-my-diet foods like kick-ass wedding cake, champagne, and who knows what all else.

RA: Kiss my skinny jeans-clad ass!

October 22, 2008

Comic Strip #5: What a year!

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I have finally hit my one year mark on being diagnosed with RA.  Read all about it and see the comic strip by Jane Samborski here.